Over 40 & feeling frumpy? Try these 3 quick things to get an instant pick-me-up.

Over 40 & feeling frumpy? Try these 3 quick things to get an instant pick-me-up.

3 Tips for an Instant Boost with Confidence and Energy

Struggling with Confidence and Energy? You’re Not Alone

Many women over 40 feel stuck, sluggish, and frustrated. As hormonal changes take over, it can seem impossible to lose weight, regain energy, and feel good in your body again.

Amanda, one of my clients, walked into my office out of breath and full of self-doubt. She had just hit 100kg as her 46th birthday approached. “I’ve tried eating healthier like before, but my body won’t budge,” she said. “I feel like I’ve lost control, and I don’t even recognize myself anymore.”

If this sounds familiar, don’t worry—I’ve got you! It’s all fixable, and you don’t have to do it alone.

Try these three simple hacks to get an instant Energy boost, Confidence and Energy.

3 Simple Tips to Regain Confidence and Energy


#1: Nourish Your Body with Real Food

It’s time to ditch the diet confusion and keep it simple. The key is wholesome, colorful foods with a balance of protein and fiber.

Focus on:

  • Mostly plant-based foods with moderate protein (beans, tofu, fish, chicken, eggs…)
  • A variety of colorful vegetables (steamed or raw)
  • Whole foods—no artificial additives, hidden sugars, or processed fillers

Avoid:

  • Processed foods packed with chemicals
  • High sugar snacks that spike blood sugar
  • Excess salt and artificial ingredients

Why does this work?

  • More energy – No need for endless coffee refills!
  • Steady blood sugar – Say goodbye to cravings & mood swings.
  • Weight loss & reduced bloating – Hello, flatter stomach!

Start today: Fill half your plate with colorful veggies and eat real food consistently. You’ll feel the difference with Confidence and Energy in just a few days!


#2: Move Every Day – No Excuses!

According to Kate Save, co-founder of Be Fit Foods, the secret to feeling better is daily movement.

“Get up and move every day, and you’ll unlock more energy while making better choices.”

Here’s why it works:

  • Moving oxygenates your cells, boosting energy
  • It flushes out toxins and reduces stress
  • You’ll burn fat, not store it

How to start:

  • Aim for 20 minutes of movement daily
  • Choose what you love: Walk, cycle, yoga, pilates, weights—anything!
  • Make it a habit, not a chore

Bonus: Moving first thing in the morning sets the tone for the day, making healthy decisions easier. Say goodbye to feeling frumpy when you’re bouncing with Confidence and Energy!


#3: Digital Detox – Take Back Your Time

Technology is draining your energy more than you think! The constant scrolling, swiping, and comparing wears you down.

Break the cycle with a digital detox:

  • Schedule tech-free time daily
  • Set an alarm one hour before bed to unwind
  • Fill that time with self-care: Take a bath, read, meditate, or stretch

Why does this matter?

  • Less screen time = better sleep
  • Reduced stress = easier weight loss
  • Being present = happier relationships

Try this: Step outside, feel the fresh air, and let your mind reset. You’ll wake up feeling refreshed, calmer, and in control.


Consistency is Key – Small Steps, Big Results

“That’s it? Just eat real food, move daily, and step away from screens?”

Confidence and Energy is necessity Yes! The hardest part is staying consistent, but the results are life-changing. When you change your daily habits, you transform your life. Ready to go from frumpy to fabulous? Book an online session and let’s make it happen together!

Time to Get Rid of Sabotaging Patterns?

Time to Get Rid of Sabotaging Patterns?

Is It Time to Break Free from Sabotaging Patterns?

Breaking Old Patterns – Reclaim Your Spark and Transform Your Life

Breaking Old Patterns? Have you ever noticed people who seem to radiate energy, joy, and confidence? It’s almost as if they have a natural spark that draws you in. I’ve always been fascinated by this energy and its impact on how people share their unique gifts with the world. From high school teachers to local shopkeepers, the people who exude this spark seem to have an undeniable magnetic quality.

But what about those who feel their spark has faded? This was my inspiration to help others reignite the natural vitality they were born with.

Our bodies and minds are complex, and it’s easy to get stuck in unhelpful patterns. When I work with clients, I start by examining their biochemistry and daily habits. From there, we declutter and rebuild. Once your foundation is strong, you can move forward with confidence and vitality.


How Does Your Brain Control Your Life?

Everything that happens in the brain affects the body. Today, we often hear about managing stress, anxiety, and depression. However, everything we experience, from our thoughts and feelings to our actions, follows a specific pattern in the brain—called neural maps. These patterns can either be helpful or unhelpful.

Unhelpful patterns include:

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Phobias
  • Pain
  • Smoking
  • Overeating
  • Poor sleep

On the other hand, helpful patterns might look like:

  • Creativity
  • Confidence
  • Learning
  • Performance at school/work
  • Riding a bike
  • Speaking a language

The brain is a powerful tool that, once conditioned, continues to repeat these patterns until something is done to change them.


Breaking Old Patterns: A Real-Life Example

Consider the case of Angela, who suffered from severe anxiety and agoraphobia. Her anxiety was draining all her energy and resources, leaving her unable to cope with daily life. She came to me with a list of five issues to address. I focused on the root cause—her anxiety.

By treating the anxiety first, we were able to eliminate the overwhelming feeling that consumed her day. After just a few sessions, Angela regained her energy and began asking, “What can I do to feel good?”

This story highlights how our brains create patterns, but they can also be rewired. Clinical hypnotherapy is a powerful tool in this process, allowing us to replace negative patterns with positive, life-changing ones.


Psychology vs. Clinical Hypnotherapy: What’s the Difference?

Many people ask about the difference between psychology and clinical hypnotherapy. Psychology deals with the conscious mind, focusing on understanding our reality and maintaining existing patterns. In contrast, clinical hypnotherapy works with the subconscious mind, the part of the brain that creates and breaks patterns.

While psychology can help us understand the origins of our patterns, clinical hypnotherapy goes deeper. It bypasses the conscious mind and reprograms the subconscious. This allows for faster and more effective change without reactivating old patterns.


How Clinical Hypnotherapy Works

In hypnotherapy, we don’t dwell on the problem; instead, we focus on creating new neural maps. The process begins with an investigation into the patient’s history and the identification of the most helpful changes. Then, we guide the patient into a relaxed, suggestible state—similar to daydreaming or meditation.

In this state, the brain is more open to change, and new, positive patterns begin to form. These changes can happen immediately, leading to lasting transformation.


Take Control of Your Brain, Take Control of Your Life

If your old patterns are running your brain and holding you back, it’s time to take action. Change is possible, and when your brain changes, everything changes.

Are you ready to reclaim your spark and break free from patterns that no longer serve you? Let’s begin today and unlock the possibilities for a vibrant, fulfilling life.

You can also read Making Changes – What Hat Are You Wearing? Hoping that’s given you food for thought and a few ideas to digest. If you know someone who would benefit from this, please share it.

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